Good Manners and Form (Al-Adab) · The Prophet (ﷺ) was neithr a Fahish nor Mutafahhish
Arabic
حَدَّثَنَا عَمْرُو بْنُ عِيسَى، حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَوَاءٍ، حَدَّثَنَا رَوْحُ بْنُ الْقَاسِمِ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْمُنْكَدِرِ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، أَنَّ رَجُلاً، اسْتَأْذَنَ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَلَمَّا رَآهُ قَالَ " بِئْسَ أَخُو الْعَشِيرَةِ، وَبِئْسَ ابْنُ الْعَشِيرَةِ ". فَلَمَّا جَلَسَ تَطَلَّقَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فِي وَجْهِهِ وَانْبَسَطَ إِلَيْهِ، فَلَمَّا انْطَلَقَ الرَّجُلُ قَالَتْ لَهُ عَائِشَةُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ حِينَ رَأَيْتَ الرَّجُلَ قُلْتَ لَهُ كَذَا وَكَذَا، ثُمَّ تَطَلَّقْتَ فِي وَجْهِهِ وَانْبَسَطْتَ إِلَيْهِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم " يَا عَائِشَةُ مَتَى عَهِدْتِنِي فَحَّاشًا، إِنَّ شَرَّ النَّاسِ عِنْدَ اللَّهِ مَنْزِلَةً يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ مَنْ تَرَكَهُ النَّاسُ اتِّقَاءَ شَرِّهِ ".
English translation
Narrated 'Aisha:
A man asked permission to enter upon the Prophet. When the Prophet (ﷺ) saw
him, he said, "What an evil brother of his tribe! And what an evil son
of his tribe!" When that man sat down, the Prophet (ﷺ) behaved with him in
a nice and polite manner and was completely at ease with him. When
that person had left, 'Aisha said (to the Prophet). "O Allah's
Apostle! When you saw that man, you said so-and-so about him, then you
showed him a kind and polite behavior, and you enjoyed his company?"
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "O 'Aisha! Have you ever seen me speaking a bad
and dirty language? (Remember that) the worst people in Allah's sight
on the Day of Resurrection will be those whom the people leave
(undisturbed) to be away from their evil (deeds)."
Narrated Masruq:
Abdullah bin 'Amr mentioned Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) saying that he was neither
a Fahish nor a Mutafahish. Abdullah bin 'Amr added, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)
said, 'The best among you are those who have the…
Narrated `Abdullah bin Mulaika:
`Aisha said that the Jews came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said, "As-Samu 'Alaikum" (death be on you).
`Aisha said (to them), "(Death) be on you, and may Allah curse you and shower His wrath u…
حَدَّثَنَا أَصْبَغُ، قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي ابْنُ وَهْبٍ، أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو يَحْيَى، هُوَ فُلَيْحُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ عَنْ هِلاَلِ بْنِ أُسَامَةَ، عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ ـ رضى الله عنه ـ قَالَ لَمْ يَكُنِ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم سَبَّابًا وَلاَ فَحَّاشًا وَلاَ لَعَّانًا، كَانَ يَقُولُ لأَحَدِنَا عِنْدَ الْمَعْتَبَةِ " مَا لَهُ، تَرِبَ جَبِينُهُ ".
Narrated Anas bin Malik:
The Prophet (ﷺ) was not one who would abuse (others) or say obscene words, or curse (others), and if he
wanted to admonish anyone of us, he used to say: "What is wrong with him, his forehead be…